Saw this online today. It made me chuckle. Cheesy... but hides a really big truth.
When your gal or guy goes out the door every day, any deep unmet need makes them more vulnerable to anyone who offers to meet that need.
Do not take your spouse for granted in any area. Make an effort to know their basic needs.
If your person seeks admiration, then you must be the one to admire them the most.
If your person needs touch, then they must get all they need from you.
If your person needs understanding, compassion, and an ear to hear about their day, it must be you.
If your person needs to have you in their life and needs your presence, it must be you that is there for that.
If your person needs to feel special and have someone demonstrate that, let it be you.
If they need a sandwich.... well.... just don't let them come to expect there is someone else just a phone call away with a Subway gift card.
Just don't. ..