"When God created man he immediately gave man a job, responsibility, and God and man were friends. God could see man needed more, so God gave man a helper. On the job a helper might just do clean up although some helpers basically run the whole operation. BUT a helper doesn't decide what his job will be and a helper is not the one who decides if the job needs doing. As Help Meets to our husbands we need to remember it is not our husbands that decided our role as helper...it was GOD. Don't ride the line because our society and even our Bible teachers don't like the role as HELPER. Just honor God and God will bring honor to you." Debi Pearl