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“Peter turned and saw that the disciple whom Jesus loved was following. When Peter saw him, he asked, ‘Lord, what about him?’ Jesus answered, ‘If I want him to remain alive until I return, what is that to you? You must follow me.’”
John 21:20-22
Christians know that it’s wrong to compare, yet our culture has more sociological groupings and measurements than you can shake a yardstick at. We struggle to avoid coming out on the losing end as we compare our lot in life with others’. And if we have faced tragedy, we often seek a refuge where our Purple Heart medals shine more brightly.
Peter had the same problem. Jesus had just revealed that Peter would be led to a martyr’s death, but not a word had been spoken about John. Obviously, when Peter sized up the situation, John appeared to be getting a better deal. “Lord, what about him?” he blurted out.
Jesus’ answer was shocking. He allowed no room for deserved indulgence, no luxury of self-pity. In effect Jesus said, “Look, if it’s my will that John lives until I come again, what is that to you? What I have planned for John is not your business. Get your eyes off him and follow me.” Rather harsh words for a man facing martyrdom! But the Lord knew the greater devastation of competing and comparing.
“Envy rots the bones” (Proverbs 14:3.
Here’s the best antidote for envy I’ve ever read. Romans 12:2 is the prescription to swallow: “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will.”
Lord, your will for me is good and acceptable and perfect. I have no need to compare myself with others—I have your best for me!
