The Bravery of Gay Romance

It is the experience of most LGBT youth to grow up confused, feeling like they'll never belong or be accepted by those around them. When faced with the realization that they don't fit the mold of certain societal norms, most LGBT youth compromise on who they are and conform in the face of consistent pressure.

Being Yourself in The Face of Adversity

Unable to be their authentic selves, most LGBT teens and young adults experience depression before 30. LGBT teens are not unfamiliar with the experience of second-guessing their every move, from their body language to the things they enjoy. However, those who have mustered the courage to be who they unapologetically have often found that the relief they experience after coming out far outweighs the judgment and shame forced upon them by a heteronormative society or conservative family values.

"Everyone should have to come out in some way. The feeling of authenticity is a universal need, a source of strength and resilience." – Ken Page, Psychotherapist.

We all crave acceptance; it's an innate human desire to belong. However, to risk being one's true self, even in the face of rejection from the people you care about, demands remarkable courage, and that is why coming out as gay is such a remarkable act of bravery.

What LGBT Relationships Teach Us

Observing the differences between homosexual and heterosexual relationships offers us a unique perspective on human behavior. Moreover, it encourages us to question how many of our societal norms are built not upon nature but on nurture.

The Myth of Gender Roles

It's a question every same-sex couple has heard before; 'So, who's the man/woman of the relationship?' the answer is fairly simple; there isn't one, or maybe there's two. Traditional heteronormative relationships have allowed men and women to coexist by designating roles within the relationship based on gender. On the other hand, gay relationships enable LGBT people to explore who they want to be and discover themselves outside of the confines of specific gender roles.

How to Deal with Conflict

John Gottman is a researcher studying same-sex relationships. According to his findings, gay couples communicate with one another more effectively and are generally better at managing conflict. In addition, his work suggests that LGBT couples are less likely to be embroiled in conflict among themselves, and criticism from one's partner is received more positively.

Don't Micromanage Your Partner

According to psychologist Joe Kort, people in LGBT relationships are less likely to control their partners. One prominent example of this behavior observed by Kort has to do with finances; people in LGBT relationships are less likely to try and control how their partner spends money.

Supernatural Gay Romance Fiction

Carrington is a proud member and activist of the LGBT community, as well as an established author. Her latest book, 'Ancient,' offers readers a glimpse into the nuances of gay teen romance through a thrilling supernatural fantasy lens. Embark on a fantastical adventure with a human boy and an ancient vampire as a mystic prophecy unfolds around them. Will dark forces prevent them from finding true love? Or will they stay together against all odds? Find out in 'Ancient' by R. Carrington, by ordering from Amazon today.