I keep becoming friends with men because they are very helpful and giving to me when I first meet them. Then, a couple months later, it ends, because they think that since they did all that for me, I am their slave or flunkie or groupie or something, and they get very weird and angry that I won't be that to them. What do you call people who are like that? Clearly, their "generosity" and giving, is evil and from the wrong motives. Oh, but they accuse me of being evil for accepting their help!! I feel like never accepting help from anyone again.